Welcome to Money Diaries where we are tackling the ever-present taboo that is money. We’re asking real people how they spend their hard-earned money during a seven-day period — and we’re tracking every last penny.

This week: “I’m a 28-year-old living in London. I live with my sister and we split the rent equally. I’ve lived in London for almost six years, since finishing university, and work in the accounting industry. When I first started my job the salary was terrible in comparison to the working hours and general cost of living in London, but it has gradually improved now that I am a qualified accountant. I appreciate that my salary may be on the higher end (on average), but living in London, especially as a single person, is very expensive. Although my goal is to buy a house in the next year or two this seems unrealistic in the current housing market.”

Occupation: Advisory assistant manager
Industry: Professional services
Age: 28
Location: London
Salary: £66,000
Paycheque Amount: £66,000 p.a. + discretionary bonus
Number of housemates: One, L.
Pronouns: She/her

Monthly Expenses

Housing costs: £938 rent
Loan payments: £31.20 interest-free loan repayment for my iPhone that I purchased last year.
Savings?: £38k in an easy-access savings account; £15k in an ISA; £6k in various investments.
Pension: I contribute 3% and my employer contributes 3% each month.
Utilities: £0 (included in the rent)
All other monthly payments: £10 mobile data plan; £13.50 broadband; £14.99 gym membership. Subscriptions: £4 Netflix (shared); £10.99 Spotify; £10 Pret subscription (on offer)

Did you participate in any form of higher education? If yes, how did you pay for it?
I did an undergraduate degree in business and finance which my parents paid for. I understand that this is a privilege so I am gradually paying them back for the university fees (I was an international student and therefore was not eligible for any student loans or other finance).

Growing up, what kind of conversations did you have about money?
There weren’t any formal conversations about money; my parents were great at meeting my needs when we were growing up without spending money on materialistic items. My parents instilled the mindset of never spending beyond one’s means, which I follow in my adult life now. My education was always a priority for my parents, as neither of them attended university, and therefore getting into a good university was seen as an “investment” to improve my future prospects. 

If you have, when did you move out of your parents’/guardians’ house?
At 18 when I moved out for university. As my parents live abroad, I have not lived with them since then. 

At what age did you become financially responsible for yourself? Does anyone else cover any aspects of your financial life?
My parents paid for all my expenses while I was at university, so I only became financially responsible at 22 once I graduated.

What was your first job and why did you get it?
My degree had a work placement integrated in the course so my first job was an internship/work placement in a financial institution.

Do you worry about money now?
Yes. Although my salary has increased over the last few years, it is very expensive to live in London and it has been a struggle to build savings while also trying to enjoy my youth. Being single, it’s more difficult to afford to live on my own whilst also saving to buy a house or flat. If I am eventually able to buy a house on my own, I also worry about losing my job and not being able to afford the mortgage.

Do you or have you ever received passive or inherited income?
No.

Day One

8 a.m. — Wake up and have breakfast of a toasted waffle with strawberries and yoghurt that I got in my weekly shop.

10:30 a.m. — I’m on annual leave this week as I have family visiting. I make my way into central London to visit the pop-ups around Covent Garden that I’ve seen on TikTok recently.  

12 p.m. — All the stalls were great. I’ve considered moving out of London because of how expensive it is, but I don’t think there is any other city that has this many things going on every week. 

12.30pm: We pass by a Pret so I grab an iced coffee with the subscription.

1 p.m. — Some of the pop-ups had food samples so I’m not very hungry. We decide to grab some bites to eat from different places in Chinatown for lunch, £7.50 for my share.

1:30 p.m. — I buy an (overpriced) doughnut from a new bakery that I’ve seen all over social media, £6.50. It’s probably one of the best doughnuts I’ve had, but way too expensive to have regularly. I rarely drink alcohol so I tend to occasionally splurge on small treats like this, which I enjoy more than a drink.

2:30 p.m. — We return home and I feel hungry again so I have leftover pasta from Pasta Evangelist that we made the previous night. 

3:30 p.m. — Spend the rest of the afternoon watching TV and spending time with family. 

5 p.m. — Start getting ready to go to my cousin’s house for dinner. 

5:15 p.m. — I get a notification that my TfL Oyster card has auto-topped up, £10.

6 p.m. — I buy a cocktail bottle from M&S to take to my cousin’s house, £4 (it’s on sale). 

7 p.m. — My cousin has prepared drinks, dinner and dessert for us which we enjoy as we all catch up.

11 p.m. — We take the tube home. 

Total: £28

Day Two

10:30 a.m. — We’re not doing anything this morning so I have a bit of a lie-in. I have a quick breakfast of cereal. 

11:30 a.m. — My family and I decide to head to Westfield to do a bit of shopping. 

1 p.m. — I tend to only shop online as it’s easier to browse different stores, so I don’t buy anything, but I do head out to pick up groceries for the week, £44.60. 

2:30 p.m. — We take the tube back home. 

3 p.m. — I make a late lunch of grilled prawns, asparagus and bruschetta from the groceries I bought.

5:30 p.m. — My family have booked a horror-themed escape room but I opt out as I hate being scared. Instead, I walk around the Tower Hill area to pass the time. 

6:30 p.m. — I get tired of walking and decide to wait in a Starbucks, £4.50 for a chai latte.

7:30 p.m. — After they have successfully escaped, we head to a dim sum restaurant for dinner, £18.36 for my share.

9:45 p.m. — Take the tube home.

Total: £67.46

Day Three

9 a.m. — Wake up and have almond croissants for breakfast. 

11 a.m. — Start getting ready to meet a friend for drinks and lunch.

1 p.m. — I meet up with my friend and we head to a cocktail bar for one drink before our lunch reservation, £12.65 for the cocktail.

2 p.m. — We head to the restaurant for lunch. It’s a set menu and I get a mocktail while my friend gets a cocktail. My share comes up to £60.75.

4:30 p.m. — We finish lunch and I browse around the shops in the mall nearby. 

4:45 p.m. — I grab a to-go coffee at a café, £4.50. I then jump on the tube to go home, as I’m feeling a little tired but have some things to do when I get back home.

7 p.m. — I’m still full from the lunch, so I don’t feel like having a proper dinner but instead snack on fruit and crisps. 

8 p.m. — I get a notification that my Oyster has auto-topped up, £10. 

10:30 p.m. — I head to bed after being on my phone for a bit.

Total: £87.90

Day Four

9 a.m. — Wake up and have porridge with strawberries. 

10:30 a.m. — I need to buy a present for a friend. After browsing online, I find something for her flat that I think she will like, £53.45. 

11 a.m. — Today is a quiet day at home so I spend most of the day cleaning and browsing on my laptop. I need to do a top-up of makeup and other toiletries, so I make a Boots order to be delivered, £23.45. 

12 p.m. — I buy a Rare Beauty lipstick that I had my eye on, and stock up on face cleanser; both purchased online from Sephora, £38.41.

1 p.m. — Make a quick and easy pasta for lunch. 

3 p.m. — Walk to Pret to grab an iced drink while the sun is still out.

7 p.m. — Eat dinner of roasted chicken, potatoes and asparagus while watching TV. 

10 p.m. — Head to bed after doing my skincare routine.

Total: £115.31

Day Five

8:30 a.m. — Wake up and have breakfast of a pain au chocolat.

11 a.m. — Today is the last day before my family goes back, so we go to Borough Market. 

12:30 p.m. — We browse the stalls and I settle on getting Indian street food, £7.50. 

1:30 p.m. — I get a brownie to have for dessert later, £3.20.

3:30 p.m. — We walk by Tower Bridge before taking the tube home. 

5:45 p.m. — I buy a book from Amazon about economic concepts, £7.99. I loved reading Freakonomics so I’ve been trying to find similar books.

6:30 p.m. — We’re having a movie night so we get pizza for dinner, £5.61 for my share.

10:30 p.m. — Head to bed. 

Total: £24.30

Day Six

7 a.m. — I wake up and get ready for work as I’m in the office today.

8 a.m. — Grab a coffee from the café in the office before I start work, £2.60.

12 p.m. — Have lunch with colleagues in the canteen. As it’s subsidised it’s only £3.62.

6 p.m. — Finish work and head back home. It’s a relatively quiet week so I make the most of these quieter days by logging off on time.

7 p.m. — I don’t feel like cooking dinner, so I get a Deliveroo. My Amex card gives me £5 back on Deliveroo orders twice a month so it comes up to £11.73 after the cash back. 

8 p.m. — Watch TV and scroll on my phone for a bit. I wish I had the energy to go to the gym after work but I’m just exhausted from the work day.

10 p.m. — Head to bed after doing my skincare routine. 

Total: £17.95

Day Seven

7:30 a.m. — Wake up and make myself a coffee with my breakfast of strawberries and a toasted waffle. 

9 a.m. — I start my work day. 

12 p.m. — I’m not very busy this week so I take a slightly longer lunch break. I make myself a quick lunch of a sandwich with chicken slices.  

1 p.m. — I walk to Pret to get a hot chocolate with my subscription. It’s cold today so I opt for something warm to have with my orange for my post-lunch dessert.

1:20 p.m. — Head back to work. 

5:30 p.m. — I finish work and start prepping dinner. 

7 p.m. — Dinner is ready and I eat it while watching a bit of TV. 

9 p.m. — I get a notification that my Oyster has auto-topped up, £10.

9:30 p.m. — I read my book for a few hours before going to bed.

Total: £10

The Breakdown

Food & Drink: £197.62
Clothes & Beauty: £61.86
Home & Health: £0
Entertainment: £7.99
Travel: £30
Other: £53.45

Total: £350.92

Conclusion

“I think my spending is cyclical as it depends on whether I am busy at work, and if I need to top up cosmetics items, for example. This is definitely a more expensive week as I had more things planned with friends and family. As expected, my largest expense is on food and drink. When I am working, I work long hours and therefore have less free time to socialise during the week (at least that’s one perk of working long hours!). If I was more frugal, I can see that there are areas that I could save money on — despite having a gym membership, I very rarely go to the gym. Overall, I think I am quite sensible with my money and only spend on things that I enjoy.”

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